Get in a Row, Little Ducks!

As I have been testing over the past few days (yes 7+ times!) I have noticed a change in the way that I process my blood sugar readings.  I have been working hard to count carbs and know what I eat so I can cover for what I eat—and even still, sometimes the numbers aren’t exactly where they should be.  In the past, that would be so discouraging for me because I would think, “I did everything perfectly, how could this not be perfect??”  But now, when I have seen a high reading I think, “Well that wasn’t the right amount of insulin for that food–let’s make a note so I can change that next time.” (of course there are factors other than food like stress or illness or unknowns to take into account too!)   I see unexplained blood sugar readings as more of a problem for my doctor to help me solve or something that I can learn from instead of a personal judgment.

For many, many long years, I have struggled with thinking that a “good” number reading made me a good person and means that I did everything right that day; whereas a “bad” number made me feel guilty, frustrated, discouraged, and sad.  When honestly, blood sugar readings are fairly predictable with a fair amount of certainty, but there are unexplained, uncontrollable highs and lows.  I am not saying that highs and lows are outside of my control, because to a large degree, they are tethered to the decisions that I make with food and insulin coverage.  What I am saying is, I cannot get caught up in the few readings that are wandering off somewhere in no-man’s land.  In the myriad of times I have started again (or dreaded starting AGAIN) to really seriously control my diabetes, I thought that I needed to have every “plate” spinning perfectly: exercise, meal planning, testing blood sugar, doctor’s visits, eating healthy (and loving it!), sleep schedule (does this mean no sleeping in??  Gasp!) — and if I’m going to do all these things, I might as well do everything else in life right too like sending birthday cards to my relations, entertaining regularly, brushing and flossing 2x’s a day, keeping my nails painted, making meals for the sick, volunteering at church, etc… I mean, if I’m going to figure out diabetes, I probably need to figure out EVERYTHING while I’m at it.   It goes with out saying that I barely made it twenty minutes before I decided it was impossible.  I’m exaggerating slightly about all the things I try to figure out at once, but truly, only slightly.  For some reason, in my mind, everything will run together smoothly and fit, or out of frustration, I will ignore it and complete and under chaos will ensue.  Those seem to be the only choices.  If I’m going to do one thing right, I need to do ALL things right, or what’s the point?–that’s how I think.  That’s how my flesh thinks.  God says that I cannot, no matter how many ducks I get in a row, attain perfection.  In fact, He says the good I can do is like a “polluted garment”  (Isaiah 63:6).  And His love for me is not tied in any way to my performance.  He chose to love me while I was “dead in my sin” (Ephesians 2:5) knowing fully who I am from toe to tousle.  He didn’t choose me because of my goodness or despite my badness–He chose me because He wanted to!

“He predestined [chose] us for the adoption through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of His will.”

(Ephesians 1:5 ESV)

It doesn’t stop there—God doesn’t just choose me and leave me be. He also promises to finish the good work He has begun in me.  (Philippians 1:6) Meanwhile, I need to remember that He will be the one that accomplishes it–not me and my mile-high recipe-for-discouragement checklists!

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2 thoughts on “Get in a Row, Little Ducks!

  1. hi Bri! I’m thinking you have more than a couple of you ducks lined up. Here is a comment fof Dr. David Jerimiah’s from “Turning Point” God will grow you in the areas that need strengthening. He will never call you to do something that He won’t help you do.
    Love and Prayers, G&G

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